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PQQLK9
06-30-2004, 07:55 AM
Top 10 Signs You're a Perfectionist

It isn't easy being a perfectionist. You have to be persistent, detailed, and an organized high achiever. You must have exceedingly high standards not only for yourself, but also those around you. You have to conceal your imperfections from others in an attempt to always project an image of perfection.

Ten Top Signs Your a Perfectionist

1. You can't stop thinking about a mistake you made.
2. You are intensely competitive and can't stand doing worse than others.
3. You either want to do something "just right" or not at all.
4. You demand perfection from other people.
5. You won't ask for help if asking can be perceived as a flaw or weakness.
6. You will persist at a task long after other people have quit.
7. You are a fault-finder who must correct other people when they are wrong.
8. You are highly aware of other people's demands and expectations.
9. You are very self-conscious about making mistakes in front of other people.
10. You noticed the error in the title of this list.

Of course, no one can be perfect. So in their quest for perfection, perfectionists place their health in peril through stress and anxiety--and they can make other people's lives miserable. Working for a perfectionist boss is really tough since he or she will have unrealistic and unreasonable expectations of employees.

The BBC News Online notes that some physicians think perfectionism is a medical condition that should be categorized as a behavioral problem or psychiatric disorder. "...extreme forms of perfectionism should be considered an illness similar to narcissism, obsessive compulsiveness, dependent-personality disorder, and other personality disorders because of its links to distress and dysfunction," Canadian professor Gordon Flett told the BBC News Online.

Flett has identified three types of perfectionists:

* Self-oriented perfectionists, who expect perfection of themselves.

* Other-oriented perfectionists, who demand perfection from other people.

* Socially prescribed perfectionists, who think others expect perfection from them.

How can you spot a perfectionist? Look for people who...
...have a "self-promotion" style and try to impress others by bragging or displaying their perfection.
...shun situations in which they might display imperfection.
...have a tendency to keep problems to themselves, including an inability to admit failure to others.

A scary warning for perfectionists: The impossible quest for perfection has been linked to a host of emotional, physical, and relationship problems, including depression, eating disorders, marital discord and even suicide.

http://channels.netscape.com/ns/careers/package.jsp?name=fte/perfectionist/perfectionist

Did you find the error? (I wish I did not try to be so perfect)

moblsv
06-30-2004, 08:16 AM
<blockquote><font class="small">Quote PQQLK9:</font><hr>
Did you find the error? (I wish I did not try to be so perfect) <hr /></blockquote>

Yes, I noticed it in the thread but you fixed it in the thread title.

PQQLK9
06-30-2004, 08:19 AM
I only cutted and pasteded /ccboard/images/graemlins/laugh.gif
check the link.

Wally_in_Cincy
06-30-2004, 08:47 AM
11. You color the side of your cue tip with a black marker 'cause it looks good /ccboard/images/graemlins/smile.gif

Rod
06-30-2004, 12:15 PM
pasteded ? lol

dg-in-centralpa
06-30-2004, 03:38 PM
Guess he's not a perfectionist. But my wifey is...sometimes it's tough.

DG - used to be a pessimist

bluewolf
07-01-2004, 06:33 AM
I caught the error but did not care. I make writing errors all of the time when posting and do not give a S***. But the spelling and grammar police love pointing out this stuff. It must be horribly frustrating to be OCD or worse even.

Not a perfectionist..

Laura