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Sev
06-06-2011, 06:38 AM
In my opinion these woman have the proper perspective on life.

Some people could learn a valuable lesson from this attitude.


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/0..._n_871447.html


<span style="color: #000000"><span style='font-size: 20pt'>'Obedient Wives' Club: Malaysia Group Says Good Sex Is A Duty</span>

RAWANG, Malaysia As a new bride, 22-year-old Ummu Atirah believes she knows the secret to a blissful marriage: obey her husband and ensure he is sexually satisfied.

Ummu and some 800 other Muslim women in Malaysia are members of the "Obedient Wives Club" that is generating controversy in one of the most modern and progressive Muslim-majority nations, where many Muslim Malaysian women hold high posts in the government and corporate world.

The new club, launched Saturday, says it can cure social ills such as prostitution and divorce by teaching women to be submissive and keep their men happy in the bedroom.

"Islam compels us to be obedient to our husband. Whatever he says, I must follow. It is a sin if I don't obey and make him happy," said Ummu, who wore a yellow headscarf...



..."Sex is a taboo in Asian society. We have ignored it in our marriages but it's all down to sex. A good wife is a good sex worker to her husband. What is wrong with being a whore ... to your husband?" she said.

"This way, the family institution is protected and we can curb social ills," said Rohayah, the club's vice president who is also a trained physician.

She said wives must go beyond the traditional roles as good cooks or good mothers and learn to "obey, serve and entertain" their husbands to prevent them from straying or misbehaving.

Indirectly, "disobedient wives are the cause for upheaval in this world" because men are not happy at home and their minds and souls are disturbed, she said...</span>

pooltchr
06-06-2011, 06:55 AM
I dare say that peace and harmony would abound should this movement start gaining ground.

Steve

Sev
06-06-2011, 12:29 PM
Indeed. Its a matter of Ying and Yang.

eg8r
06-06-2011, 12:53 PM
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The new club, launched Saturday, says it can cure social ills such as prostitution and divorce by teaching women to be submissive and keep their men happy in the bedroom.
</div></div>Time to party like the pre-60's all over again. /forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif Wasn't there an ad in a magazine or something back then that described all the things a wife should do, like pamper the husband, make sure his meal is ready when he gets home, etc? LOL, that don't fly anymore and rightly so. This ideology puts the woman's needs second and the man first which I don't agree with.

A lot of people misinterpret the Bible to have the same outlook by quoting scripture that women should submit/obey to their husbands however they always forget the equally important part where it states the man should love his wife as Christ loved the church. Marriage is a two way street and both participants need to participate 100% of the time.

eg8r

Sev
06-06-2011, 02:13 PM
He Eg we are talking about Muslims here. The Koran and Sharia put all woman as second class. If not below that of animals in some cases.

However there is nothing stopping woman from taking this path should they do so of their own volition.